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The spoiler speculation was confirmed by tonight’s show. DeAnna does in fact send bachelor Jeremy home. I really thought Jeremy was going to be in the final 2 a while back. I was hoping that the pictures I previously published were wrong. Don’t get me wrong, I think all 3 finalists are good guys. We all think we know who is best for DeAnna and I thought Jeremy was her best match and thought she was attracted to Graham the most. Actually, I thought Graham would be in the final 3 too, if not the final 2. This season is definitely been a challenge trying to figure out who she is going to choose.  Personally, I think she is still in love with Graham and is still not really over him.  She seemed to really care about what he thought during the “men tell all” episode.

This week, I think the audience was able to see more into the quietness of Jeremy. I think many people are disturbed by people who are quiet or introverted. Yours truly is no exception. I am not Mr. Social so I can relate to the way Jeremy’s personality comes across. Many of the other bachelors on the show are simply insecure about themselves and I think that is why they hate Jeremy so much. If you look at Jeremy from what you see on the show, he is actually a good guy just like the rest. He actually seems very sincere about his feelings and was in it for the right reason. Check out this clip of DeAnna and Jeremy from last week here. I get the feeling Jeremy took a leap-of-faith-chance and left himself open to find Mrs. Right and definitely opened up more than he was ever comfortable emotionally. This reminds me of the time when a previous Bachelorette Meredith told Matthew (1 of the final 2) “that it would make her happy if she got a ring from him” the night before the final rose ceremony. Of course, she look like a jerk after she sent him home packing. OUCH! All I can say is you can feel the pain Jeremy was in. DeAnna and Jeremy to me would have been another Trista and Ryan.

Last week, Graham was sent home without a rose. She definitely was into him. It was his to lose and he lost it. After reading all the interviews out there about him, he seems even more likable than the way he was edited on the show. From what I read in the forums, he is no longer a pro basketball player and is a partial owner of a bar. Sound familiar? Either way, I think he was upfront with his feelings with DeAnna and basically allowed himself to be cut. He seemed to be true to himself. Definitely read the interviews he did afterwards and you will have more insight to him.

I guess I am really wondering most is what type of feelings she has for the final two bachelors. I don’t really see the connection, or at least a strong physical connection like the one she had with Graham, or an emotional connection like the one she had with Jeremy. Both Jesse and Jason seem to be great guys, but I just don’t know how she goes from Graham and Jeremy to Jesse and Jason from her feelings. I listen to the voice overs DeAnna says when talking about these guys, but I really don’t see them displayed on the show in her actions. You could see them with Graham and Jeremy, even if the sound was turned off ,by her body language and facial expressions.

Obviously, I don’t know what she is thinking or feeling, but I can listen to what she is saying and watch what she is doing, and there is definitely a disconnect for the audience. If you read the forums, which I do from time to time (after every episode lol), then you can confirm what you see with others and see if they see it the same way. I noticed there were many Graham and Jeremy fans. Much more than Jesse and Jason fans. I really am stumped this season as far as who her final choice will be.

I think there are more Jason fans then Jesse fans because of the kid factor. As for the best match, I just can’t figure it out. I think it is because I couldn’t guess these would be the final 2 guys. She doesn’t have the super duper physical attraction or the telepathic emotional link with these 2 guys. This would be the season where I could understand it if she said at this point, I can’t pick any of these guys because I am still in love with Brad, err I mean Graham, no, I mean Jeremy. Of course, she would be crying. I am starting to wonder how much tears her tear ducts hold because it seems to me she cries in every episode. Maybe even between every commercial break.

I don’t think I will make the right guess this season.  Technically, I am already wrong since I thought it would be Jeremy.  What has surprised me is that the forums people at Fans at Reality TV have been pretty accurate with all the “rumors” out there.  I heard rumors that Graham was going home which I found hard to believe.  His Bunn was toast. Dohhh!.  Then I heard rumors Jeremy was next with shocking photos included.  They must be photoshopped. Nope, Jeremy went home not only broken heartened, but broken into a million pieces. 2 rumors that turned out to be factually correct.  So really, all I have to do is read the forums and find the next rumor.  One rumor is that there will be 2 roses on the stand, one for Jason and one for his kid.  That would be the Sleepless in Seattle movie ending.  In that movie Tom Hanks is from Seattle and has a kid.  I think the  woman he meets up with is Meg Ryan.  Those 2 sure look much different now.  Especially Meg Ryan.

After discussing it with my wife, based on what we saw on the last episode and what we saw in the “men tell all” episode, we think it will be Jason, the single father from Seattle.  I heard about the rumor that there will be 2 roses at the end but in the preview scene they only show one that can be seen.  However, earlier in the date with Jason, DeAnna asks if his son knows where he’s at. He responds to something to the effect that he told Ty that he was trying to get another flower from DeAnna.  Jason then said Ty wanted to get a rose too.  I think this would fit into the rumor of 2 roses.

Of course, they finally did show the preview, and in the past you could always tell who would get the final rose based on the time of day.  The person who comes out first is turned down, and the second person to come out is the one that gets the rose.  In this scene, the sun is higher up in the sky based on  the way it cast shadows on Jesse’s clothes and DeAnna’s face.  When Jason gets down on one knee, you can tell it is later in the day and the sun is more at sunset level.  On a side note, in this preview clip Jason and DeAnna kiss on the lips.  Jesse and DeAnna don’t kiss on the lips.  Again, this is all based on the preview clip.  For some real nitty gritty analysis go to the Fans at Reality TV forum, because they are pros who spend way more time than we do and they seem to get pictures before the rest of the public.