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First of all, I first heard about the possible 2 girlfriends that Ed had through Reality Steve’s site.  Now, they were rumors back then, but now they seem to have grown into realities.  I only say that because now there are names of the 2 girls claiming that they were with Ed.  So maybe it just wasn’t Wes doing the two timing but Ed as well.

Is it true?  Ed denies it. Jillian stands by her man.  I think these 2 women speaking out and putting their names out there with nothing to gain seem to have some credibility.  Also, there is proof of emails and text messages that Ed won’t be able to deny.  If Jillian has any common sense, she should run for the doors.  The funny thing is she always seems to be attracted to  (alleged) cheaters  like Wes and Ed.

People:

Two women, Lindsey Johnson and Bethany Steffen, claim that Swiderski, a Chicago computer software consultant, was stringing them along while he was wooing Harris on the ABC reality dating show, and that he continued to do so even after he and Harris got engaged on May 24. The reports claim Harris feels betrayed and that her relationship with Swiderski is destroyed.

“I am not destroyed!” Harris tells PEOPLE. “There’s a little bit of anxiety that comes with this news, but I am absolutely not destroyed.”

“What did he do wrong?” Harris asks. “My biggest concern is with everything that happened after the day we got engaged, and after we got engaged he has been so open with me. He’s told me all of this, every little text message and every little phone call. I use his computer. I know that any communication he had with the girls post-show was platonic. I’m not worried about it.’

Last month, Swiderski talked openly with PEOPLE about his relationship with Johnson prior to getting engaged, confessing, “When I left for this show we were not dating, but I certainly still had feelings for her.”

Examiner:

Various reports are surfacing regarding the situation with Swiderski and his multiple women. A source told RadarOnline.com that Swiderski “broke off his relationship with Bethany just a week before he began shooting The Bachelorette, but soon resumed contact with her via texts and emails.”

“Ed’s sexy messages to Bethany certainly aren’t of the kind a happily engaged man should be sending,” the source said.

“When the episode aired showing Ed as the winner and he and Jillian agreeing to marry, Bethany was stunned,” one of the sources said. “Ed’s sexy messages to Bethany certainly aren’t of the kind a happily engaged man should be sending.”

The sources are also stating that Harris is devastated and their relationship is destroyed, a report Harris firmly denies. Harris told People.com in an interview “I am not destroyed!” Harris continued “There’s a little bit of anxiety that comes with this news, but I am absolutely not destroyed.”

Harris did confirm to Extra that she knows Ed has kept “semi in touch,” via text message, with both women. Harris doesn’t seem to concerned, saying she will meet Ed in Las Vegas tomorrow and still plans to move to Chicago September 1st to be with him.

“This is a bump in the road, and we’ll get through it,” Jillian says. “Ed and I are on top of the world right now.”

Sorry to the JED supporters, but this relationship is on the same route as the Bennifer, and we all know how that ended.